Wednesday, September 14, 2011

MARRIGE IN TODAY'S PROSPECTIVE

Is marrige a necessity in Today's society.  In my view it is not necessary to get married if you do not get the proper life partner.  Because it is very difficult to pull on with a person who is not up to your mental level, financial level or can not live or think up to your level.  Or other wise it should be according to one very famous saying " FOR A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE ONE SHOULD BE AN INTELLACTUAL AND THE OTHER SHOULD BE A FOOL".  Some time when the gap is very large then both the side make a compromise and do not want to compete with each other.  But when the gap between the two is sizable then the weaker side always wants to play down the stronger side may be financially or ideaolgically.  For satisfying their ego they may go to any extent to show the stronger side a weak one and the results some time are found to be disastrous.

               Once when the difference starts then it becomes very difficult to pull on and some time the differences starts at such an age when the relationship becomes so complex and that you can not take a seaperation as the involvement in each others affairs is so much that it becomes impossible to take a seaperation and in some extreme cases it conclude as a sucide from one of them.  So to avoid such a बेमेल marrige it is better to remail a bachelor till the time get a suitable life partner.