VAIRAGYA

What is negativity ? Having no interest in the life is not negativity. Having no interest means the VAIRAGAYA. When a human has seen a lot in the life then it lost interest in the life. Has no interest in the activities of life does not always means VAIRAGYA. When the human lost interest in the life and sees it from the negative angle means feels to give harm to others because of the suffering it suffered in the life then it is called negativity. But if the human though suffer a lot in its life but thinks positive for the others is called positivity. This is also not VAIRAGYA because thinking from the positive angle or negative angle in the life both shows the inclination towards the involvement and desires in the life. It means the human who thinks either from the positive angle or from the negative angle both are having hopes from this world so they are not VERAGIES. It is easy to think from the negative angle and its is a bit difficult to think from the positive angle but it is very difficult to think from the neutral attitude, because it involve the role of a judge. Some people may thinks it is very easy to become the judge but before becoming judge one has to first analyze its own activities and has to improve those. Becoming VAIRAGI is just like moving on a tight rope where one has to balance its activities and analyze the other happenings around it and the people around it in a neutral manner without getting influenced by the relationships and the feelings in its heart towards those humans. The human who do not think either positive or negative about the world and is seeing the activities of this world from neutral angle is VAIRAGI.

Such human only do that much work for itself as is necessary to have essential facilities to spend the life and the rest of the work it do it for the society or to serve the nature. They see the life as they are not living in this world and analyze the activities as an observer. They do not fear of saying any thing just on the face whether negative or positive to any one who so ever he/she may be. They do not have any fear factor or affection for any one and says what ever they feel. It does not matter for them that some one will feel good or bad but they always do what ever they feel in their inner conscious. They are more attached to their conscious and not to some one or the world as a whole. But one thing that human must take care of that is not to become NIKAMA but become VAIRAGI to serve the nature or the society.

The desire to have happiness leads the human towards the sadness. The failure to get the happiness is the root cause of sadness. It does not matter for a general human what it has achieved but it matters that what it has not achieved that is why the humans are generally found to be sad. If humans want to live comfortably then one should not run after the happiness and shall not feel sad for any thing which it does not have. One should do its work as a soldier and without looking for the result. It is also a misconception in the mind of the people that one should adopt the path of VAIRAGAYA only after attaining some age. No it is not true the human should do all its work at all stages by keeping in mind that what ever it is doing is as per the instructions of its conscious and as a duty.

So, it is easy to be a positive or negative personality but it is difficult to be neutral in life as the attractions, attachments towards the life and comforts of this world do not allow the human to follow the path of VAIRAGYA. .